Recent content by Karlon

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    Is Online Interaction Helpful to Those with Social Anxiety?

    that sounds like an honest intelligent explanation. nice job with that. i never experienced anxiety. but my brothers & i lived thru hell growing up because of the almost daily beatings mentally, physically & spiritually. it was quite catastrophic! i think i have a higher than normal...
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    Guilty

    "she's always on my heart & mind"! you thought it, you said it & NOW, ACT ON IT! sit in your favorite room with no noise for a couple of hours & start cogitating on the 1st time you laid eyes on her. think that thought thru as much as possible! now, think on the thoughts in which you were...
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    Is Starbucks a Good Place to Meet Single Women?

    a superb daily reminder
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    ~Chuckle for the Day~

    Skammi: "my husband didn't leave a bit of insurance". Ringa: 'then, where did you get that gorgeous diamond ring"? Skammi: "well, he left $1,000 for his casket & $5,000 for his stone"
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    What Are the First 5 Things You See in Your Refrigerator?

    my 1st laugh of the day! really. tis' phunnneee! speaking of dirt, when i get home from work, i have to immediately fill the sink with sudsy water & wash my hands, face & forearms. the water turns black in a hurry!!! unbelievable! i must be wearing a pound of dirt when i get home!!!
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    What Should Happen On a First Date?

    to me, on a 1st date, & the next 3 or 4, it would be more like an inspection, interrogation & discernment meeting. but even before that, totally now-a-days, get as much "pre" information as possible from a pastor, hopefully. by course, always get Jesus on the job. yea, you guessed it, like...
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    Falling in love with the potential...

    1st, i'll say i hope you are relaxed, calm & loose in all this in a "Jesus" way. don't allow yourself to get upset, depressed or distressed. 1 day at a time. now, my answer to the ? i have never fallen "in love" in my dating years. i didn't "feel" anything special. but after a while, i...
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    Life feels like an echo bouncing back

    it simply sounds like you are talking to the wrong people. are they Christians? are you a Christian? i would never consult or ask a non Christian for advice. also, maybe you are not in line with God's plan for you. there's lot's of work here for you to do to figure out the direction in your...
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    What Are the First 5 Things You See in Your Refrigerator?

    food, drink, light, dirt & space!
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    Sports Thread

    yes, lately, he is, almost 2 weeks. 1st time i think since he's been with the yanks.
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    Christian Men -- Would You Marry a Woman Who's Kissed 50 Different Men?

    how would anyone know a woman kissed 50 men unless she says so? my wife had many many dates when she was young, by her admission. me, almost as guilty. i was a northeast drummer playing in rock bands. i could have kissed, without doubt, 300 to 400 women & behaved very sinfully. but i...
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    Is Online Interaction Helpful to Those with Social Anxiety?

    my advice when conversing with people with social anxiety is to tell them that the Christian definition of anxiety is: "misplaced priorities in life". talk like you've known the person forever, like he's your sister, brother, family member that your really close to, never mention yourself...
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    Sports Thread

    alright, let's talk sports. giancarlo stanton, who changed his name from mike to giancarlo, has got to be the top example of a baseball player earning too much money. this guy earns over $600,000 a week!!! you read it right, $600,000 a week!!! he strikes out a lot & his average is low. this...
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    ~Chuckle for the Day~

    upon entering a room in a hotel, a woman recognized a well known government official pacing up & down & asked what he was doing there. "i am going to deliver a speech", he said. "do you usually get very nervous before addressing a large audience", she asked. "nervous", he replied, "no, i never...
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    The BIG SECRET I Wish Married People Would Tell Us Singles About...

    most people are, what i call, "surface thinkers". meaning: they listen for selfish reasons, listen to respond without benevolence for the speaker & they listen while their mindset is, "i don't care". also, most people don't think deep enough into a situation which obviates wisdom from being...