Recent content by Butterflyyy

If preaching the Gospel in a particular environment is likely to stumble someone into sin then they shouldn’t preach in that environment; there are certain environments where it would be right for women specifically to do this work.

I don’t get this. So just to clarify, would you be ok with your man looking lustfully at other women?

It’s not a hang up, that’s just your opinion. Noticing and looking are two different things. I would see it as disrespectful and inconsiderate of my husband’s feelings to stare at some buff guy; if I accidentally did this I would apologise to him and then address it by training myself to look...

I would not want to be married to a man who chooses to appreciate the beauty of other women. 🙂

I appreciate a lot of what you said. A verse came to mind also; ‘Beware you stand lest you fall.’ I think it is playing with fire to appreciate the beauty of another woman expecting not to lust after her. This reminds me of a an awesome verse when Job said,’ I have made a covenant with my eyes...

Not his responsibility-in fact-it would be wise for me to take her on my own, and to take her to a women’s meeting.

I believe with all my heart that because I have prayed for God to bring His choice of man to be my husband, that He will. I reckon if God knows the number of hairs on my head then He would also care about who I marry. It is extremely difficult to wait, sometimes…however, tiredness can worsen it…...

I’m referring to obvious immodest clothing , ie: very low cut tops, very short, tight skirts, very thin, skin tight fabric short dresses, skin tight leather pants, etc. I personally would not want my husband to give a lift to a young, attractive woman dressed like this even if I was in the car...

True but there are some very revealing clothes that are clearly not covering a woman’s body up. I also think that other certain circumstances affect what is right in this situation, for example, if the woman is young and attractive then it’s wise to leave other Christian women to minister...

Sadly a Youth Pastor in my friend’s Church got entangled helping a young girl with problems. His wife agreed for her to stay at their house… eventually he left his wife and has a baby with the young girl he then married her. The first wife has children with him and is no longer attending Church...

Also I’ve heard quite a few times of Male Youth Leaders falling into immorality and/or adultery.

Sorry if the question seems vague. I hope my last comment clarifies what I mean.

I think that is a very good idea what you said about Sunday School and Choir. I personally am not okay with men giving a lift to women who are immodestly dressed with other people to a Church meeting. and think it ought to be women taking this responsibility. It’s a matter of wise personal...

Evangelising women who have very immodest clothing on.