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ewq1938

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Hell is the default setting where we all are to begin with.

No, hell is where the unrighteous end up. It is not anyone's beginning.
 

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That is twisting what I said just a little. If you are saved and you keep your faith and repented heart until the Day of Lord Eternal Life is yours to enjoy. But if you willfully sin and walk away from God and continued with an unrepented heart and die in that state, you are separated from God Eternally. Sin cannot abide in Heaven.

Revelation 21:27: "But nothing unclean will ever enter it, nor anyone who does what is detestable or false, but only those who are written in the Lamb's book of life."

This verse explicitly states that nothing unclean, including sin, will be allowed into heaven. Only those who are redeemed by Jesus Christ and have their names inscribed in the Lamb's book of life will be granted access to heaven's purity.

The verse is actually talking about a city called new Jerusalem on Earth.
 

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That has nothing to do with the discussion we are trying to have.
I was correcting a mistake.

Wrong: "This verse explicitly states that nothing unclean, including sin, will be allowed into heaven."
Right: "This verse explicitly states that nothing unclean, including sin, will be allowed into New Jerusalem."
 

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No, hell is where the unrighteous end up. It is not anyone's beginning.
I replied on my way out the door anticipating the debate about death and hell that it would be sure to follow. Some would argue that death, of which fear of compels many to bondage and torment, is nothing in comparison to hell but, I'm not convinced these aren't synonymous. Indeed, it is appointed to all men to die once, and so all begin, at the least, with having to look forward to it, and then the judgment... Anyway, I wouldn't be surprised if this isn't where atheists draw this "death is nothing" idea from.
 

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That is twisting what I said just a little. If you are saved and you keep your faith and repented heart until the Day of Lord Eternal Life is yours to enjoy. But if you willfully sin and walk away from God and continued with an unrepented heart and die in that state, you are separated from God Eternally. Sin cannot abide in Heaven.

Revelation 21:27: "But nothing unclean will ever enter it, nor anyone who does what is detestable or false, but only those who are written in the Lamb's book of life."

This verse explicitly states that nothing unclean, including sin, will be allowed into heaven. Only those who are redeemed by Jesus Christ and have their names inscribed in the Lamb's book of life will be granted access to heaven's purity.
So know one can know if they are saved until they do an audit of their life at their last breath? Hmm :unsure:
 

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I am not calling the saved lost. I simply saying the saved can willfully remove themselves from God and once again become lost. If they remain in that state God will turn them over to a reprobate mind.
This keeps coming up over and over again. No genuinely saved person will "willfully remove themselves" from God and Christ.
 
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I was correcting a mistake.

Wrong: "This verse explicitly states that nothing unclean, including sin, will be allowed into heaven."
Right: "This verse explicitly states that nothing unclean, including sin, will be allowed into New Jerusalem."
I understand very well what the Scripture is saying, but if you are with God anywhere that is Heaven to me. Also remember that the New Jerusalem came down from Heaven.

Revelation 21:2

2 And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.
 
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Individual Apostasy

Heb 3:12 "Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God."

Apostasy (Gk apostasia) appears twice in the NT as a noun (Ac 21:21; 2Th 2:3). But here in Heb 3:12 it

is used as a verb (Gk aphistemi, meaning to "turn away"). The Greek term literally means "standing

away" from God, and it relates to spiritual rebellion, abandonment, withdrawal or turning from what

one has previously believed and experienced in a relationship with Christ. It typically involves denying

once sincere faith, disowning Jesus and abandoning the body of Christ (i.e., the church community), although some who have turned their backs on a relationship with Christ may still pretend to be part of the church. Apostasy is the consequence of a willing and deliberate choice in "departing from the living God" (3:12).



(1) To apostatize means to break off from one's saving relationship with Christ or to withdraw from

union with and faith in him (see article on FAITH AND GRACE, p. 2127). For this reason, individual

apostasy (as differentiated from a group, church, people or nation rejecting God) is possible only for

those who have first experienced God's forgiveness and been spiritually "born again" (Jn 3:3-7) and

renewed through a personal relationship with Christ (cf. Lk 8:13; 6:4-5; 10:29). Apostasy is not simply a

denial of NT belief and teaching by those in the church who do not truly have a personal relationship with Christ. In fact, apostasy may involve two separate but related stages of rejection: (a) theological apostasy, which is a rejection of all or some of the original teachings of Christ and those used by God to write his Word (1Ti 4:1; 2Ti 4:3) and (b) moral apostasy, which involves a former believer willingly breaking away from a personal relationship with Christ and becoming spiritually enslaved again to sin and its lifestyle (Isa 29:13; Mt 23:25-28; Ro 6:15-23; 8:6-13)



(2) The Christian faith is primarily about relationship to and companionship with God. The Bible speaks of God as the Father, Jesus Christ as the Son and those who accept Christ by faith as God's family and children (Ro 8:14-17). This means that spiritual salvation through faith in Christ is personal,relational and requires our individual response. God's grace (i.e., his unearned and undeserved favor, love and spiritual enablement)- made available through the personal sacrifice of Christ-is enough to forgive and save us spiritually and to sustain our relationship with God. In Jesus' illustration about the vine and the branches (Jn 15:1-8), the believer (BRANCH) who remains united in relationship with Christ (VINE) is spiritually secure and has life. However, if that believer becomes spiritually rebellious or faithless toward God and chooses to break from his or her grace-union with Christ, then he or she becomes cut off from the source of life. A person who remains in this condition will, in the end, lose

the privilege of living eternally in the presence of God, just as one who never accepted Christ (cf.

In 15:6).





(3) The Bible gives urgent warnings about this serious and sobering possibility. These warnings are designed both to alert us to the deadly danger of abandoning our union with Christ and to motivate us to remain faithful and obedient to him. We must not ignore or treat lightly God's purpose for these warnings and develop the attitude that says, "the warnings are real, but the possibility of actual apostasy is not." Rather, we must take these warnings seriously, realizing that they apply in a very real sense to how we use our time on earth until we receive our full, complete and final salvation in eternity with God. A few of the many NT passages that warn us are: Mt 24:4-5, 11-13; Lk 12:46; Jn 15:1-6; 14:21-22; Ro 11:17-21; 1Co 15:1-2; Col 1:23; 1Ti 4:1, 16; 6:10-12; 2Ti 4:2-5; Heb 2:1-3; 3:7-19; 4:1, 6-7; 6:4-9; 10:26-31; 12:25; Jas 5:19-20; 2Pe 1:10; 2:20-22; 1Jn 2:23-25.



(4) Examples of actual apostasy can be found in Ex 32; 2Ki 17:7-23; Ps 106; Isa 1:2-4; Jer 2:1-9; Ac 1:25;

Gal 5:4; 1Ti 1:18-20; 2Pe 2:1, 15, 20-22; Jude 1:4, 11-13; see article on THE AGE OF THE ANTICHRIST,

P.2351, for comments on apostasy predicted to occur within the church in the last days before Christ returns to take the faithful in his churches from the world.



(5) The steps that lead to apostasy are as follows:

with him through faith in Christ-become spiritually unconcerned, resistant or outright rebellious.

a) Believers-those who have accepted God's forgiveness and entered a personal relationship

These individuals show their unbelief by failing to take seriously all of the truths, challenges, warnings, promises and teachings of God's Word (Mk 1:15; Lk 8:13; Jn 5:44, 47; 8:46).

(b) If the realities and desires of the world become a higher priority than the realities and desires of God's kingdom and purposes, then believers gradually cease to recognize and experience

Companionship with God through Christ (Heb 4:16; 7:19, 25; 11:6).

(c) Because of the deceitfulness of sin (i.e., anything that offends or defies God or falls short of

standard), believers become increasingly tolerant of sin in their own lives (1Co 6:9-10; Eph 5:5; Heb 3:13). They no longer love what is right and hate what is wrong (see Heb 1:9, note).



(d) Their hearts become spiritually hardened (Heb 3:8, 13), resistant and unresponsive to God.

Eventually, they openly reject his way (3:10), ignoring the repeated inner voice and rebuke of the Holy Spirit (Eph 4:30; 1Th 5:19-22)



(e) The Holy Spirit becomes grieved (Eph 4:30; cf. Heb 3:7-8), his fire is put out (1Th 5:19) and his

temple (i.e., the person's body and life) is violated (1Co 3:16). As a result, the Holy Spirit eventually

departs from the believer's life (Jdg 16:20; Ps 51:11; Ro 8:13; 1Co 3:16-17; Heb 3:14).



(6) If spiritual "backsliding" (i.e., neglecting or abandoning one's faith and personal relationship

with Christ) continues on its course without change, individuals may eventually reach the point where no new beginning is possible. That is to say, they will not be able to start over and renew their faith in God because no one is able to do this on their own apart from God's grace and the power of his Holy Spirit.

(a) Those who once had a saving experience with Christ but deliberately and continually harden their hearts to the Spirit's voice (Heb 3:7-19), continue to sin willfully (Heb 10:26) and refuse to turn from their own way back to God may reach a point of no return where repentance and salvation are no longer possible (Heb 6:4-6; see Dt 29:18-21, note; 1Sa 2:25, note; Pr 29:1, note). There is a limit to God's patience (see 1Sa 3:11-14; Mt 12:31-32; 2Th 2:9-11; Heb 10:26-29, 31; 1Jn 5:16).

(b) This point of no return cannot be defined in advance. The only safeguard against the danger of ultimate (i.e., full and final) apostasy is to take this warning seriously: "Today, if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts" (Heb 3:7-8, 15; 4:7).



(7) It must be emphasized that while spiritual backsliding is a danger for all who drift from faith in

Christ (Heb 2:1-3) and turn away from God (6:6), ultimate apostasy resulting in the hopeless condition described in the previous point does not occur without constant and deliberate resistance against the Holy Spirit (see Mt 12:31, note on sin against the Holy Spirit). Just as we are not saved by our own works and efforts, but by God's grace (see Eph 2:8-9; Tit 3:5), neither are we fully condemned to separation from God by our actions alone (although we will be judged by them; 2Co 5:10). People are saved spiritually by accepting God's grace and putting their faith in Christ; and people are condemned spiritually by rejecting (or simply not accepting) God's grace and refusing to put their faith in Christ (cf. 12:15, 25; Ac 19:19; 2Th 2:10; Rev 16:9). Refusing to have faith in God can be expressed in several ways, including refusing to believe in God, refusing to rely on God, refusing to take God at his Word, refusing to admit the wrongness of our own way, refusing to accept God's way of spiritual salvation through Christ alone and refusing to accept God's help and involvement in our lives. A person who

allows his or her heart to become hardened or rebellious toward God by refusing him in any of these ways is in serious danger of rejecting God permanently (3:12).



(8) Some who reject their faith and abandon a true relationship with God (Heb 3:12) may still think

they are Christians. However, their spiritual neglect and unconcern toward the demands of Christ, the

inner voice of the Holy Spirit and the warnings of Scripture prove that they are in rebellion against

God. Because of this possibility of self-deception, Paul urges all those claiming to be spiritually saved

to "examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves" (2Co 13:5, note).



(9) Those who genuinely become concerned about their spiritual condition and have a desire to

return to God in true repentance (i.e., changing one's attitude toward God, admitting sin, turning from one's own way and submitting to God) can be sure that they have not committed the unforgivable

sin (cf. Mk 3:29), or ultimate apostasy. God's Word clearly affirms that he does not want anyone to

perish or be spiritually lost and separated from him for eternity (2Pe 3:9; cf. Isa 1:18-19; 55:6-7). In fact,

the heavenly Father will joyfully receive any wayward, rebellious or lost child who truly repents and returns to him (compare Gal 5:4 with 4:19; 1Co 5:1-5 with 2Co 2:5-11; see also Lk 15:11-24; Ro 11:20-23; Jas 5:19-20; Rev 3:14-20; note the example of Peter, Mt 16:16; 26:74-75; Jn 21:15-22).
 
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Keeping the law is important...but not for salvation. In this regard, it always brings death.
So again, come join us in life everlasting. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ.[/QUOTE]Again, you disregard, and contradict, the teachings of Jesus Christ.

"If you want to enter into life, keep the Commandments."
Matt. 19:17
Whosoever shall do and teach the 10 Commandments, shall be called greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven.
Matt. 5:19

The scribes and Pharisees were hypocritical teachers of the 10 Commandments. They taught them but did not obey them. Yet, we see Christ Himself claiming in the very next verse (Mt. 5:20) that if you are not more righteous than they, you have absolutely no chance at all of entering the Kingdom of Heaven.

God bless all who seek Truth diligently and sincerely.
 
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They recognized Him, but they didn't call upon Him. They wanted to get far away from Him.
Because they so deeply believed in Him that they were terrified of Him.

So ... wait, why won't they be saved then? They clearly believe.

The answer lies in obedience to God's Commandments.

Demons and unholy men do not obey God's Commandments and they will not be found in Heaven no matter their level of faith.

For those who love God keep His Commandments.

John 14:15
John 15:14
1 John 5:3
 

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Because they so deeply believed in Him that they were terrified of Him.

So ... wait, why won't they be saved then? They clearly believe.

The answer lies in obedience to God's Commandments.

Demons and unholy men do not obey God's Commandments and they will not be found in Heaven no matter their level of faith.

For those who love God keep His Commandments.

John 14:15
John 15:14
1 John 5:3
There level of faith is 0.
 
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The road is narrow, but it's not a tightrope.
Neither is obedience to the 10 Commandments.

Jesus said "My burden is light" because the Commandments are not difficult for those who truly love Christ.

Can you tell us which Commandments are so impossible to keep as to compare them to a "tightrope" please?
 
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Galatians 3:20-27
20 Now a mediator is not a mediator of one, but God is one.

21 Is the law then against the promises of God? God forbid: for if there had been a law given which could have given life, verily righteousness should have been by the law.

22 But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.

23 But before faith came, we were kept under the law, shut up unto the faith which should afterwards be revealed.

24 Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ, that we might be justified by faith.

25 But after that faith is come, we are no longer under a schoolmaster.

26 For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus.

27 For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.

Righteousness and truth and Life comes by faith in Jesus Christ not by following the law. Now those who have faith in Jesus Christ and want to serve Him with all their heart will most certainly obey the law to the best of their ability but we are mere humans and no one has ever kept the law perfectly except for Christ.
No one here yet has claimed that the Commandments must be kept perfectly.

How many Christians do you know who even make an effort to keep all 10?

You clearly do not based on your position in this discussion.
 
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There level of faith is 0.
That's pretty silly.

They lived in heaven among all the holy angels and saw God the face of God Almighty and served Him and know more about God and all creation than any man who has ever lived before being cast out of heaven.

And you claim they don't believe in God or heaven or anything spiritual?

Your credibility is on the line here.
 
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Hi Everybody,

Sorry if I posted this in the wrong section. I am new here. The thing that brought me to a Christian forum is to explore some ideas regarding Christian faith and salvation. In particular, how do you know you are saved? Can you believe in God, believe that Jesus is the Messiah and be respectful towards God and yet not have your name in the book of life?

The thing that has me asking is, in the past I felt like my connection to God was validated through prayer. I would pray, then events would occur, usually never in the way I expected, that would bring me to what I believe was a God driven outcome.

Additionally, I felt like I saw the world in a way that only a Christian could and I thought that was through the eyes of the Holy Spirit.

Now, it seems like I pray and the answer is dead silence. I am not even sure the Spirit is there. Maybe my name is not in the book of life. I have been the grateful recipient of some wonderful gifts but God can bless the saved and unsaved as He chooses. Plus, I have shamefully shared some frustrated, angry words with God. I'm sure He wasn't too happy about that.

I have never been end times focused, beyond basic curiosity, but assumed the time of Christs return would be well past my lifetime. Given the state of current events, and I'm not just referring to war in Israel, I'm not so sure any more. Things seem different today, in a very bad way, and I have never felt so disconnected from God. Perhaps I have fallen from His favor or perhaps I was never really saved to begin with. I believe there will be lots of people who will be surprised to find out their name isn't on the list.

Interested in your thoughts on this topic. Thanks!
My advice is that you not focus on your experiences of answers to your prayers or any other way. God gives four answers to prayer: no, yes, not the way you thought, and not yet. Sometimes, it takes years of prayers that you know are God's will before he answers in his own time. We Christians in our fast-food culture sometimes expect instant answers. It's like the dog's tail trying to wag the dog. Sometimes, God wants us to learn patient persistence in prayer. I regard to your other topic, no one knows the day or the hour of Jesus' return. Once saved, always saved--a clear teaching of Scripture!
 

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That's pretty silly.

They lived in heaven among all the holy angels and saw God the face of God Almighty and served Him and know more about God and all creation than any man who has ever lived before being cast out of heaven.

And you claim they don't believe in God or heaven or anything spiritual?

Your credibility is on the line here.
There is a difference between believing about God and believing in God. Faith is either all in or all out. It is the evidence of things unseen. Either you see the evidence and are convinced, or you are not. Half believing is doubt, not faith.
As far as my credibility goes, perhaps you should save your judgment for yourself. Hate to see you with an eyeful.
 
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There is a difference between believing about God and believing in God. Faith is either all in or all out. It is the evidence of things unseen. Either you see the evidence and are convinced, or you are not. Half believing is doubt, not faith.
"Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils (demons) believe also and tremble."
James 2:19

So your case is that angels have no faith.

Gotcha.
 

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"Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils (demons) believe also and tremble."
James 2:19

So your case is that angels have no faith.

Gotcha.
Angels believe there is a God. But they don't put their faith in Him.
 

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Neither is obedience to the 10 Commandments.

Jesus said "My burden is light" because the Commandments are not difficult for those who truly love Christ.

Can you tell us which Commandments are so impossible to keep as to compare them to a "tightrope" please?
I didn't compare obedience to the 10 Commandments to a tightrope.